tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-119270472100281278.post7243280964389846248..comments2024-01-24T12:51:19.125-05:00Comments on Not Sure: Get Married or Move In?John Sukhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14257475843355209416noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-119270472100281278.post-91724474618012493432013-06-18T15:55:23.435-04:002013-06-18T15:55:23.435-04:00Loved your response Sandy.... "commitment&quo...Loved your response Sandy.... "commitment" with the heart and mind in sync or better known as sincerity".... divineadvancedhumanbeings.comhttp://divineadvancedhumanbeings.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-119270472100281278.post-27012248797666817482013-06-18T15:51:40.405-04:002013-06-18T15:51:40.405-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.divineadvancedhumanbeings.comhttp://divineadvancedhumanbeings.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-119270472100281278.post-34842071922527249132013-06-15T22:21:13.409-04:002013-06-15T22:21:13.409-04:00A colleague once asked me if I had lived together ...A colleague once asked me if I had lived together with my husband (of 25 years) before we got married. I answered no (even though technically we had since we had both lived under my parent's roof the last 4 months before getting married...). I told her that I was not the same person after 25 years as when I had married and neither was my spouse. We had both grown and changed so much in 25 years that even if we had lived together to 'see if we were compatible', it wouldn't have been a good predictor. Instead, what was important was common values and an willingness, on both our parts, to change with and for each other, and to hold each other to standards of truth and love.Sandy Brunstingnoreply@blogger.com